Monday, January 26, 2009

Rough Life......

Well as I sit here and watch the weather outside, as I am warm and snuggly inside and I am off work early due to weather here in OKC; I am watching "Keeping up with the Kardashians"......now I ask you.....do these girls really have a rough life? It doesn't seem so.....I mean granted I am lounging and semi-working from home; but I don't have people falling all over themselves to do everything for me, nor can I just decide I am going to "check out" and go to the spa for the ENTIRE day. Now don't kid yourselves people if I could I would-in a heartbeat!

Speaking of heartbeats, mine is starting to defrost some.....meaning I am starting to open up to the whole "Valentine's Day" thing and it doesn't seem so bad. All this means is that when I finally do have an incredible one it will have all been worth it-the wait that is and it has been a long ass wait! Jess told me to quit being so bitter and I guess she is right, but again I said somewhat defrosting-not defrosted:) I have also decided to start with a clean slate-meaning no boys, guys, men (whatever you want to call them) that don't have my best interest at heart and respect is somewhere in the equation:)

XOXOXOXOX
The Queen

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Pink Elephant.....

So the main topic of discussion at chez det this evening (other than new furniture) was......you guessed it...............CHEATING......

So this is going to be a short post........just one question-the mother of all mothers.......

What is YOUR definition of cheating? HMMMMM

Det seems to think that the exchange of bodily fluids is cheating; be it kissing or the bawchickabawbaw.....

Jess seems to think that its an emotional affair.......as in physical could be forgiven, but you go to an emotional level and its all over......

Me.......well...........I think its a combination of all of the above.......basically if you are dis-respecting someone you are with by showing, exchanging or being on an emotional intimate level with someone else......its cheating.......

'nough said......thoughts?
XOXOOX
The Queen

PS Happy Valentines Day-or Devil's day as I like to call it!

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Potato Pad

Well.....so Jess and I started the Potato Pad search on Sunday and it didn't pan out so well. There just isn't allot to pick from downtown-especially apartment wise and nothing I would spend $1000+ on, I mean it's not Dallas people-it's downtown OKC and Bricktown-now I am not hating but seriously.......so anyways we ended up at Iguana Lounge having good conversation, food and sangria's:) So it wasn't all bad.......

The search continues.....I looked at several more places today/tonight and we'll see what pans out. Do you ever notice how people really talk property up though and then you arrive to be very disappointed......well let's just say that's how it has gone so far.......except for my run in with a fantastic little historical building-converted to apartments, but again its hard to pay what I paid in Dallas for rent......no doubt these are still in the running for me though:)

So that's about it........stay tuned!

XOXOXOXO
The Queen

Sunday, January 18, 2009

Times they are a changin'......

So I have made the decision (after much deliberation) to move out of chez det........yes no more stocked beverage center, homemade meals, wireless Internet, lake view or fancy fires.......I sound like I am idiot leaving all of this huh? Well I am 31....did I just say 31....yuck.....(another blog another day) and it's time to pick back up and move out on my own. Det and Jess have helped me get back on my feet and while I had every intention of buying I think I may rent for now.......so.......my adventurous search begins.......for the perfect potato pad:)

On another note........the one thing I hate worse than E-Harmony (please see blog archives) is headed my way.......yes people Valentines Day. The devils day.....I swear this day was created to make single people feel worse about being single than most of us already do!!! I hate this day with a passion, always have-always will......and let it be known that even when I wasn't single this holiday still sucked! Never in the history of potato-dum has this blasted day been anything about happiness or love. This year I am going to celebrate it my way-now I am not sure what that is yet but I am sure it will involve some wine! (sorry mom-love you)!

XOXOXOX
The Queen

Monday, January 12, 2009

Addiction......

I have held out long enough and never understood the "Twilight" phenonenum (sp?); but I read the first one, at Jess's suggestion and I fricking was finished with the first one in 2 days. And people for me that's AMAZING since I am not a big reader; I am already into the 2nd book and into the 11th chapter and can't wait to go to bed tonight so I can get wrapped in my little vampire love story once again......

You know it's not a bad gig that Bella has, completely worshiped by her vampire boyfriend....maybe I should take another direction and start searching for the super natural:)

XOXOXO
The Queen

Saturday, January 10, 2009

Seriously.....

I have just spent the last 2 hours searching for a new background and what you see is all I came up with?!

Anyways.....I am excited about tonight-I am headed to Mahogany Steakhouse to have dinner and blow my WW diet even more....really I don't know if I am on this diet at all. I mean my social scene just isn't conducive to counting points when every beer is 2 points! But I am going to try and get some control in where I can.....

The first week of work was good, I am going to like working with this group-they even sent me flowers on my first day! You all know how I feel about flowers and them being delivered to work! This could have only been made more amazing if they had come from a guy who was just thinking of me and wanted to make me smile.....OK so that's a little far fetched but a nice thought-don't ya think?!

So really that's all I got for ya today......it's too cold to be outside and too early to start drinking......points, points, points:)

XOXOXO
The Queen

Sunday, January 4, 2009

Off the wagon.....

So new year's has come and gone.......I partied like a Rock Star in Tecumseh, OK at Cow Town USA. For those of you who are not familiar its a country bar and we were there not only celebrating New Years Eve but also one of my good girlfriends birthdays........lots of beer, lots of music, lots of boys and a big fat headache to follow:)



So needless to say I was not counting points Wednesday evening, nor have I really been counting since Wednesday considering I went out again with the girls from work on Friday night. They took me out for my last day and we celebrated with La Luna Swirls (which were fricking awesome!) and then brought it on home at Club Rodeo.......do you see a theme here? More beer, more music, more boys followed by another headache yesterday:)

Jess on the other hand is committed and is steadfast and staying strong.......she has her doubts about my commitment to the WW point system.....I am getting back on track tomorrow-promise.......

So I know you all are waiting to hear about New Years Eve and some great grand story of how I met the man of my dreams and he has already called and asked me out on a fabulous date and we are completely and totally infatuated with one another already-nope sorry folks no such luck. Did I meet someone yes-I always "meet" people-is he the man of my dreams-far from it.......heard from him before the hour of 11pm-nope and am I completely infatuated-ummm that would be a NO. So the search is still on for 2009.......I am starting to get deterred and about to give up yet again but it is only the 4th day into the New Year.........

Sam on the other hand is the best snuggler a girl could ask for:)



XOXOXOX
The Queen