Have to situations......

OK well my niece Tia (Jess's furbaby) went in to get her nails trimmed and had the funny juice and everything-she came out fine and is all a twitter in the colder weather I am sure.....(I must say I love this dogs personality, she is very much her own and her mother, if you know what I mean). So you know what that means..............time is up and my deal is over. I have to call my father.

Many of you may think that this would be easy, but it is not. I am in one of the situations where it has been so long you don't know what to say-so suggestions are appreciated.......

Keep in mind (which my mother so quickly reminded me this past weekend) that the last time I really, really spoke to him and had a conversation was in 2002 and that ended with a "F*&@" you.

You can see how great we have gotten along since the age of 16........



PS-Many of you may think that is harsh-and given my age (22) sure it was immature sure. But there was allot of hurt, anger and bitterness in that one word.

Not yet......

OK I am putting it off-really off.......calling my dad. It has been a week and I have thought about it but haven't done it.........

So as soon as Jess takes my niece in to get her nails trimmed; which she is also putting off because she hates to put Tia under-then I will call my dad.......

That is the deal I made with myself anyway ;)

It's been long enough......

I have decided to bury the hatchet and call my dad......life is too short and I need peace one way or the other........no expectations just a simple conversation.

I have procrastinated long enough-this week I will make the call......stay tuned.......